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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

Cancer, I fought my ass off to get cured from Hep C. It was awful. 3 tries, interferon, ribeeviran... horrible drugs! Finally I got the cure with Harvoni. Lo and behold you couldn't let me be. Cancer. Liver Cancer. So ok, as though that's not bad enough, you took my mom, and my dad, and my uncle.. all dead thanks to you. Left me peterfied I would die also. So they hacked out the right love of my liver... and took you with it. Which is great! Cancer free now 12 months. But you nasty thing left me with so much pain. So much fear. So much hurt. You took my liver, my friends, my hair, my skin.. my appetite... so so so much you took from me. Yet the people in my life think I'm so lucky. So strong . Cancer free. NO! I'm none of those things. I'm asirvivor , yes. But the price was very high. And you will come knocking at my door again, this I know. So cancer, screw you. You ruined my life. I hate you!

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