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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Fighter: Breast Cancer

I don't even want to begin with "Dear Cancer,". You are not my friend. You deserve no intro like "Dear". You deserve nothing from me, yet you keep taking. You are a parasite! You keep hanging on & popping up, bug off already. I believe wholeheartedly in every thing happens for a reason, but we can't see the Ripple effect when this Bad stuff happens to us or those we love. If I could figure out the reason, I could carry the burden easier. If I have to go through this so someone I love doesn't, I would in a heartbeat.... I just don't know if that is the reason my life has been tipped sideways & upsidedown. By the way, I hate butterflies now because every one reminds me of thyroid cancer & how freakin GREAT it is supposed to be! Burn in hell butterfly! Breast cancer patients get treated so much better, I am living proof. All kinds of people asking what they can do for me now, but not a few years ago when I was taking poison RAI to kill the parasite/cancer & in isolation away from everything & everyone I love. When I was struggling with symptoms so close to bipolar disorder that if the doc didn't know it was thyroid related, I would be in a nut house! Yeah, you can help me now that you can where pink (my least favorite color) in my name, Just cause I have no boobs!

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