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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Survivor: Breast Cancer

Dear cancer I'm really upset at what you've done to my body both mentally and physically. Most days I feel fine, but other days I feel like I'm 99. You took so much away from me...although God persevered and we kicked your butt, you have decided to misbehave and mess with what I thought was finished. My implants have only been in my body for 7 months and now I've got to have the right one replaced. I noticed right after surgery that it looked deformed, larger and droopier then the other. I thought it was all in my head but come to find out...it was all in my boob. I don't want anymore surgery but thanks to you, I'll have to do it or have one side pretty and perky and the other looking like a cantaloupe with rotten indentions and sagging like an 80 year old lady. I thought I'd get a break after 15 months of fighting. But you decided otherwise. You had to mess with my implants and my head. It's alright though because I'm stronger then you and Gods got this. He'll always carry me, so no matter what you choose to do, we'll have our gloves on ready to knock you out. I want you and your remnants gone from my body for good!!

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