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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Survivor: Thyroid Cancer

Dear Cancer::Today marks my 5 year anniversary of my surgery. I was diagnosed with Thyroid cancer in March of 2011. Besides the loss of my thyroid I also had a left neck dissection where they removed 22 lymph nodes. Today there is still no sign of the disease , but my surgery side effects are still there. My left side of my neck is completely numb and I have no strength in my left arm. I tried it all to get better, from PT to massages, nothing worked. I have a lot to be thankful for. I have met so many people on this journey , some who now are my closest friends. I will tell you what Thyca took from me. it took my job, a job I LOVED to do. There is not a day that goes by that I don't miss it. I was a Lieutenant with the greatest fire department in the world, the FDNY. I am one of about 45 NYC firemen diagnosed with Thyroid cancer since Sept 11th. If you were part of the rescue and recovery effort of Sept 11th your chances of getting Thyroid cancer is 265% greater then the general population... The terrorist are still killing us. There are over 1400 firemen suffering from some sort of cancer from that day.......If you think you won, you better pack a lunch cause you will never beat me

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