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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Survivor: Lung Cancer

cancer, you are a nightmare. 7 months ago you were found lurking in my lungs, hoping that no one would find you, BUT, we did. Now you are gone, hopefully forever. finding out about you was like being hit the head with a baseball bat, wow! I really never thought you would be a problem for me, since I haven't smoked in 28 years, AND because you invaded my brother's body and ate him up inch by inch, pound by pound, from one organ to the next, until there was nothing else to gobble up, I was wrong, you got hungry again, and craved a taste of his kid sister. I look at myself now, no dead giveaways, just a small scar on my side, did it really happen, is it true? i guess so, but heres the deal, what people don't see is the scar you left in my brain, how can I ever get rid of it..by taking each day at a time, by learning to appreciate every day, by knowing that every day has it's beauty, if when there is a raging blizzard outside.I look up and I smile for my girlfriend wendy, for my brother alan, for my friends, kenny, and now cheryl, because without them in my life I would not have the inspiration to be brave, to stay strong, to stay positive. I hate you cancer, please stay away from me and my family. I hope to NEVER meet again!

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