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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Fighter: Ovarian Cancer

Dear Cancer here we are againToday is another day here on earth no thanks to you. All glory to GOD thank you jesus for loving me first yesterday i had my 8th treatment of chemo three hrs long five meds. I am so angry i dont no what to do or think anymore. some days i feel i can do anything to better my life get back on track but it reminds me im sick and my mind reminds the body and the emotional roller coster ride it does'nt stop here drives me crazy with ups an down hi's an lows the loneliness i feel in my heart the lost of my friends who dont call or came around anymore the family that its hard on the stress i give to them because i have crying spills from pain and dealing with the transformation of this all my heart is heavy. I often think back over my life and i would always say i have never done anything to anyone because i did it all to myself but i did not do this cancer did it. trying to destroy me just as i was trying to learn how to love me it took so many years to like myself and here you come to try and shut me down once again take the little i have left but i well FIGHT you all the way so you can go back to the HELL you came from. I am sick of you leave me be i have to much to LIVE for i f@@king HATE what you have tried to take from me thats EVERYTHING.

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