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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Bravewings Connect

Survivor: Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia

Dear Cancer, I truly feel sorry for you today. Today I am remind, as everyday, that it is I, just a 20 year old with a dream, beat the monster that invaded my life almost two years ago now. Today I play with my new hair, which is actually better (thicker and softer) that my old hair was, so you lost that too if you thought taking it away would make me feel worse. I was told yesterday that I call into work too much around chemo time. Well guess what? That means I have a job and people who care enough about me to work with my chemo schedule. You lost that too. I had finals last week. That means I am back at college. It might such some days, sure, I feel like you keep me in a mental fog, but I had finals which means I got through a whole semester despite you. Take that. I might not be all that brave, cancer, but I have grown brave wings, and honestly, I think I only have them because of you. You thought you would tear me down? Well, as a matter a fact, you showed me how strong I could be. You taught me to push through. After this, I will no longer just fly; I will soar. Nothing you do now can possibly change that.

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